Most of the time I am the type to just keep my mouth shut and just go with the flow; whether a situation involves me or not. It's not that I don't like confrontation, I simply just can't stand drama. Women tend to take things way too far, hold grudges, make snide comments and just act like a total bitch. All of which I just don't have the time for nor do I want to partake in it.
So, let's break down what my vent blogs -- which will come in a set of three (for the time being) are going to cover. Let's be honest, if I don't post what I'm "raging" about now, by the time I get around to making my next entry, I will have forgotten all together was I was upset about.
1. Couples -- in general.
2. People who make harsh judgments.
3. Assumptions.
Couples.
Yes, I am gun rant/vent 'bout couples.Why? Because, I wish to. Perhaps it is because I am a single (sometimes biter) young woman who can be rather act disgusted by the way people act rather than simply be happy for those 'in love'. I'm not quite sure. All, I do know is that I do not understand people. I dun think that I have ever truly understood anyone. I honestly dun even understand myself for the most part, but this isn't going to be about me. It's going to be about couples. [As always, I will make references about myself or my beliefs -- and there isn't a damn thing you can do about it.]
Happy Couples.
Okay, we get that you are happy. But, honestly.. it gets a little much to see you oogle over each other at every possible moment. This can be expanded further than PDAs in public places but onto social media; "hacking" each other's FB, long drawn out status updates and photographs. I know that I have also fallen into this habit in the past, but I can say now that I will not allow it to happen again. You should be happy with who you are with but there should also be a line. A line that shouldn't be crossed. Your world should not revolve around this one person. Do you honestly think that you will even last? Let alone last to the point where you are old and gray? Let's be real with each other. You won't. I will be surprised if you last even a few years. Now, to be fair. It will not be because you both won't try but because you are two people who are acting like one person instead of two. Also, get off of your high horse. You are going to read this and assume I meant you. I don't. I am speaking about NO one couple in general. Also.. For the love of all that is good in the world, shut posting photographs of you two kissing on your Facebook and "hacking" your significant other's page. We all see through that lie. It's not cute either..
Falling into the same pattern Couples.
What irks me more than those who 'can't live without each other' are those who can't simply move on from each other. I use to believe that one day I would return to a person from my past. That things would fall where they belong. That I would have this fairytale ending. HAH. Wrong. But, again.. this isn't about me. People ought to take a step back from their situation and look at the root of why they didn't make it the first time around. Was it cheating? Distance? Bordeom? And, do you honestly think that it has changed? Nah, it hasn't. It isn't going to change. You continue going back to something you are comfortable with, for whatever reason. Most likely because you are scared of something new or something that requires some sort of a future instead of this game you continue to play. Even though this isn't about me, I will admit that I am a same pattern type of person. HOWEVER, I have begun to break this mold. And, honestly, everyone else should as well. The outcome of your relationship will never change, you are not good together and never will be. Sip on a cold cup of reality, for your own sake. Also.. Stop dwelling on what could of been with that person. It's over, Boo. They don't want you anymore.
One Sided Couples.
Even with just those three words, you know that you can think of a couple in your life that fall into this. You know where the counter-part is just that bit more of a mess than the other, or that more needy. Where you almost feel bad for the other half because they probably didn't realize what they were getting themselves into. It's probably the worst type of relationship to be in. I mean, who wants to feel for someone that they know cares less for them? I'm sure some of you are going to say that love isn't some fighting ground, there isn't a winner but rather a team. Oh, bullshit. That's why you can hear, at any given moment, couples who fell into the first category saying that they love each other more. It's why someone takes the next step before the other person. It's what takes relationships to their next level. I really think that these type of relationship occur because someone isn't secure enough in themselves. For whatever reason they have, they feel like they are lesser of a person than others. Maybe they just feed off of the pity that people give them, I'm not quite sure. I just know that they also annoy the fuck out of me.
You are probably thinking the following at this point, I know I would be. Is there enough such a thing as a perfect couple to you, Crystal? Or, are you just going to continue to bitch about every one because you can't seem to keep a relationship. And, to answer you. Yes, there is. A couple that fights,
a couple that laughs, a couple that grows, a couple that act as two NOT one, a couple that expresses, a couple that are friends (first and foremost) and a couple that can see the errors in each other's ways. They call each other out on one another's bullshit; clingy, demanding, and annoying behaviors.
/Rant.
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